Comparing or Connecting

Before traveling to Kenya I set the intention to experience life as they live it.... not compared to how I live here in the United States  I've posted the comic below on FB a couple of times because I think it speaks to this point- we can find positive or negative in ALL situations.. As a team we had many conversations about comparing and how it actually separates us rather than build connections and friendship. I realized how often I do this in my everyday life here in the US. Comparing has been a struggle for me for many years, it has never felt good and at times it seems like is a never-ending battle. However, considering it from this new perspective of what I am potentially losing by comparing myself to others -meaningful relationships, shared laughter, support and inspiration-  it makes comparing any aspect of life a little less habitual.  When I notice myself falling into the comparison trap instead of becoming frustrated and even more annoyed with myself I am able to pause (even if it is very briefly) and remind myself what I DO want in my life.  Comparison separates, connection unites. Together we are one.